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Dating for non drinkers

If enjoying drinks is a staple of your social life, consider how drinking would be if your partner isn’t feeling the same buzz.

Sure, drinking may be a part of your social life, but are you sure that it’s worth giving up the chance of a trusted relationship because you can’t share a pitcher of margaritas together?

Ultimately, these are decisions that you have to make for yourself. The best thing you can do when you meet someone sober is to talk about the possible issues with your new date; run the issue by a few friends and family members; and listen to your instincts which will tell you whether someone is worth the sacrifice.

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Do you announce your sobriety before you’ve even met? A few glasses of wine may feel like it’s getting the conversation going, and make most dates seem more interesting and attractive than they actually are. You can actually rely on your judgement, and you’re less likely to make a complete arse of yourself.

Ultimately, it’s going to be more helpful for you to date someone who understands and supports your drinking goals.

In any scenario, having sex with someone new can be scary – sober or not.

However when you’re going out with someone for the first time, it’s a good idea to keep a clear head. If you know you’re going to have to stick it out sober, you’re also more likely to hold out for dates with people you feel an actual connection with.